Just alike...

The other day I was told I look just like my sister. Now don't get me wrong, I love my sister, I just don't want to look JUST like her. I am my own self. I think what got me about it was that it came from my dad. I don't think we look the same. We have similarities, but are not identical. If you were to see us, yes you would be able to tell we are related. That is fine. I just hate it when people say you look just like someone-unless you are a twin then okay I understand. Trust me we are not twins. I do enjoy looking similar but would never want to look JUST like her-or any of my other sisters. For that matter, I would not want to look JUST like anyone, cause then I would not be me.

Lost & Found

So we are at my parents and I don't hear my son. We look in all the closets, the drier, the pantry, the toyroom, in the beds. I start to think WHAT THE &%*&#? Where could he have gone? I am yelling, and so is my dad and my husband. But my mom-well she just sits there and reads her book. So now I am thinking WHAT THE %&#*&!!! ARE YOU JUST GOING TO SIT THERE?? We were able to find him, he was hidden under a table behind some stuff. Let me tell you that was the scariest 15 minutes of my life.
So should I have said something to my mom? It was like she did not care. She did not seemed concerned. Almost like she knew where he was. But did she? NO. I am really mad, but just need to let it go. I just can't believe the way she acted.

On a good note. He was found safe and sound. He did know he was in trouble. Not sure if I ever want that to happen again. But I'm sure it will. KIDS what to do with them.

The annoyance of everyone sitting around and watching TV instead of interacting. What do they think. I can do that at home, why would I want to go to the family party and do that. We tried to get them to play games, but to no avail. So finally after getting them to unwrap presents, and have dinner. We tried again, they decided again to just watch movies/TV so we decided to head home since the kids had not had a nap and were getting to be a little cranky.

The beginning....

This is where I will come to vent my frustrations with whatever. I am not sure how to vent, and I have learned that if I don't vent, I blow up. SO I am going to try to write it here-and you won't know who I am. If you have an issue you want to vent, or have some similar problems and have figured out how to deal with them, please leave a comment and let me know.

I have been having some problems lately. I feel like I have been being judged lately. I also get sick of being asked to help, but then as I am helping, I just get crap for it. I get so sick of it. How do you tell someone to stop asking you for help when they don't end up taking the help.

I have been really frustrated too, I was told that I take to much on myself. But yet when I try to pick the stuff I feel I can do, I am asked by that person to help with stuff. If I say I am not available I get crap for it. I am so sick of it. ARGGGGGGGG!!!

Hopefully I can figure out how to deal with this and tell them to shod off with out being mean about it.